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What is Betrayal Trauma?
Betrayal trauma is a psychological phenomenon characterized by the profound distress and emotional upheaval resulting from the violation of trust by someone close, typically involving a breach of loyalty, confidence, or faith. Betrayal, as defined by the dictionary, denotes the act of betraying someone’s trust or confidence, often implying deceit or disloyalty. Betrayal means “an act of deliberate disloyalty”.
Betrayal’s root is “Betray”—which comes from the Middle English word “Betrayen”—meaning “mislead” or “deceive”. Betrayal has to do with destroying someone’s trust—ironically for betrayal to occur there needs to be trust to begin with.
When linked to infidelity, betrayal trauma manifests in the devastating impact of discovering a partner’s unfaithfulness. It shatters the foundation of trust in the relationship, leading to a loss of reality as the betrayed individual grapples with the shock and disbelief of their world collapsing around them. It’s like the ground being ripped out from under you, leaving you disoriented and overwhelmed by the sudden rupture of your reality.
The experience triggers a cascade of emotional responses, including intense fear, anger, sadness, and confusion, which can lead to a state of emotional and psychological upheaval akin to a brain fog. Trauma ensues as the individual navigates the aftermath, haunted by intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and flashbacks of the betrayal.
The inability to trust oneself or anything is a common consequence, as the betrayed person questions their judgment, intuition, and ability to discern truth from deception. Self-blame often compounds the anguish, as they wrestle with feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness, wondering how they could have missed the signs or prevented the betrayal.
Ultimately, betrayal trauma inflicts deep wounds on one’s sense of self-worth and security, undermining confidence in oneself and future relationships. Healing from such trauma requires time, support, and often professional intervention to rebuild trust, restore self-esteem, and navigate the complex emotions stemming from the betrayal.
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